A porn addiction often finds an open door through the “hole” in a person’s heart—the area that needs healing. As human beings, all of us have been hurt in one way or another, and we all are in need of healing.
Many people believe that the Bible exaggerates certain topics—specifically, topics involving sex. They don’t realize that modern science actually agrees with the Bible about the importance of saving sex for marriage.
A woman I will call Stacy recently told me her story. She became involved in a sexual relationship because she needed to feel loved, but even though she was sleeping with this man, she realized she still didn’t have what she wanted.
The day I married my husband, I was not anxious about the future. I knew that God had confirmed His perfect will for us and, therefore, Leon and I both were confident that our marriage was going to be a forever deal. No looking back, no hesitation.
Men like a challenge and the reward that comes from going through something difficult. Letting the man pursue the woman makes him value the woman even more once she accepts him, even if it is only for a date or two.